Dating While In High School Can Lead To Trouble

[Panharath]

When parents give children the approval to start dating, they think the child is mature enough to handle stressful situations. Dating can be an emotional time at any age, but when a child is learning to cope with pressures provided by someone who is a peer, things can lead to trouble real fast. Some trouble can be avoided if parents take the time to talk to children about sex and the opposite sex in general.

The closest some parents come to discussing sex with teenagers is joking about having babies and faces the consequences later. The exotic beckoning that dating causes in young adults is almost like a drug induced lull in the thinking process. When young adults are aroused by strange touching that they have never felt before, they tend to lean toward turning their mind off and their passions kick on.

Some young adults begin dating at the tender at of 13 because friends they know through internet chat rooms and live in the same city have invited them to go to the movies with a group of friends they know. Parents might allow the 13 year old to go to a movie with a girlfriend, but their child will probably never let them know that there will be boys meeting them when they get there.


From that age on, that child will have grander forms of deception in mind when they are away from home and prying eyes. They might begin dating people quite a bit older than them when they reach the age of 14 or 15 and that person might have lied to them about their age or the fact that they are already married. All the young adults see is a gorgeous guy who is considered to be quite good looking.

Dating gets really complex in the last year of high school. Boyfriends might seem to get more demanding about the girl performing sex when they go out on a date. The professions of love are not real but the girl might take these words too close to heart, and after the sex takes place a few times, she might find that the good looking guy has disappeared off the face of the Earth.

When children have a traumatic time dating in high school it often causes them to have problems with forming a personal relationship with the opposite sex in the future. They might date friends just to get out of the house and have some company for a while but they will often hold back on committing their heart to anyone again. These people might never recover from a relationship that was a disaster from the start and they continually kick themselves because they never recognized the warning signs.



What do you guys think??? Any comments?

[denith]

If you don't mind, I think the major problem is "sex before marriage." Yes, this is the biggest issue of all time for Cambodia. High-School love relationship can cause these easily, since young people tend to try them out.

[-Loren-]

It seems like nobody care too much about this matter. We can just raise the question only. The problem is still the problem and it is growing.

[denith]

And as a citizen of Cambodia we should put a stop to the problems, or at least, slow it down.

Girls are delicated when Boys ask for sexual satisfication since they don't have anything up against the boys' demand. So, girls will have to let boys do bad thing on them. And, you said that problem is just a problem, will you let girls fall into these disasters? Aren't you a man?

[-Loren-]

Should find the way out to solve the problem. Hey let's just jump to valentine's day a little bit. Check here..http://www.piseth.info/2008/02/01/valentine%e2%80%99s-day-%e2%80%93-love-or-business/
Observe what are the problem

[Panharath]

It seems like nobody care too much about this matter. We can just raise the question only. The problem is still the problem and it is growing.

Yeah The problem is still the problem untill it's figured out! But the point is "How to solve it out?"

And as a citizen of Cambodia we should put a stop to the problems, or at least, slow it down.

Girls are delicated when Boys ask for sexual satisfication since they don't have anything up against the boys' demand.

Denith! I used to tell you "Love is Blind"? Or they mostly tend to sacrify and satisfy for their boys and themselves, though.
The point is coming from their SELF-INDULGENCE and they are not mature enough to control their emotional. They can't figure out about the meaning between LOVE and LUST.
Actually, I cannot come up with any best or effective solution to solve this problem.

[denith]

@loren: since you want to discuss about Valentine Day, why not create another topic?

@Panharath: of course they are immature to "test" love and its consequences. Moreover, the government seems careless about the situation... as the young people use the word "human rights" to hide thier real affair - yeah, you know what i mean. However, they are underage and the authorities - not to mention the parent - have every rights to out a stop to that.

[Panharath]

@Panharath: of course they are immature to "test" love and its consequences. Moreover, the government seems careless about the situation... as the young people use the word "human rights" to hide thier real affair - yeah, you know what i mean. However, they are underage and the authorities - not to mention the parent - have every rights to out a stop to that.

It's not easy to control that problem by government.

[denith]

Why not?

Government can restrict and control the age of customer the guest house and hotel should open for, and make it obligation that the customer must show their ID card to book the room.

Government can also control the motorbike-driving license, the age for motorbike user and restriction onto student's usage of motorbike.

Government can also control the movement of students during school-time, like the absence record, the score record and other record.

[Panharath]

Why not?

Government can restrict and control the age of customer the guest house and hotel should open for, and make it obligation that the customer must show their ID card to book the room.

Government can also control the motorbike-driving license, the age for motorbike user and restriction onto student's usage of motorbike.

Government can also control the movement of students during school-time, like the absence record, the score record and other record.

You are right! It can be done untill the corruption has been effaced!
Hmmmmmmmmm Forget it! 

[denith]

Actually, we no need to erode corruption before these suggestions. Because Corruption comes after these practices:

Because they skip school that is why they need to pay bribe to teachers to erase the record and for some points for the subject. So, corruption is passive compare to the current crisis.