Dear all,
Most of you guys seemingly are rich with ideas. So feel free to put forward what is coming into your mind since that's realistically the fact. Some couple might experience in this situation whilst a new legally wedded couple or lovers might keep it as their own resolution to the hidden conflicts of some kinds. It can help a whole lot better, our shared idea based on various experience we perceived and encountered.
Cheers,
Well It is a very good topic you came up with!
Actually, we all face conflict at some time in our lives. But it doesn't always have to be negative, it doesn't have to end up as a war! In fact if you learn skills to deal with conflict there can be some really positive and satisfying outcomes. Causes of conflict, in most relationships, can be that sometimes we don't understand each other and what she/he really mean. We can mistake the true meaning or another person can make a mistake about the meaning of something we say or do.
In consequence, conflict can get dangerous when couples get aggressive and violent. Conflict can bring about increased learning and greater understanding of each other's viewpoints when dealt with wisely. Some of them avoid conflict, which means they don't get any say in what's happening.
The solutions are about finding out what you both want and where there are areas that you can both agree on, then working towards them. It's about working together as partners trying to solve a problem, not as opponents trying to win against each other. It's about working together on a basis of mutual respect to find a satisfying solution.
Just remember: being respectful, being understanding, being assertive to work out the conflicts.
So I can say conflict can result in changes, often for the better.
