How to be confident in speaking?

[vilang]

My name is vilangI am a new member of this website. I'm very interested in this program and i usaully tell my friend about site prouly. But  something bad i face is when i speak English with my buddy or foriegner , I am very afriad and i do not what to communicate with them. Do you,  smart guy have recommentdation to demonstrate me please.

[Nicole]

 Hello Vilang,

 I used to face this problem as u do right. The good ways are:
- Try to communicate a lot with others people in English, Eps with the native speakers
- Don't worry too much about the grammar while you're talking
- Feel free(relax) when you're speaking, cuz nobody gonna catch ur fault
*** If there's no chioce, then what about the MIRROR ?

After I except some of these points, I feel that I have confident whenever I speak English. I'm not a fluently speaker one but I feel happy with what I can do by the way.

HOPE THIS MIGHT HELP...!

Nicole

[Raksmey]

Hi guy, I am not a smart guy but maybe i can share some ideas with u. These are my ideas
1- you have to be confident. nobody is perfect, remember that u can learn from ur mistake
2- watch some English-speaking movies. it will help u with everyday expression
3- speak with whoever u can. don be afraid of being laughed at.
4- think before u speak. it will make u more confident.
5- sometimes speaking alone in front of the mirror can help. just act as if u were talking to someone.

There are alot more to do. i hope other friends will tell u more'.
Hope to see ur improvement soon.

[rachada]

All good points follow their ideas buddy you're gonna improve 

[Kimlong]

Hi Vilang et al!!!

To be confident is to believe ourself. I mean we have to force ourself that we have sufficient ability to conduct or perform any work we face!!!!

Try friend, step-by-step, I think you can do well!!!!!!!

 

[denith]

Well, its bad that i'm to say such things. But, these days, sitting in front of PC, online to read posts in this forum, i found so many similar problems about speaking. Why Cambodian people dont have the courage to do what they feel is rite to do? I mean, they learn English because of various interest, and when it comes to real situation, they lacks confident in facing such moments. I have many Korean friends who are English-beginner, but they were showing their heart speaking English with breavery, leaving all negative thought behind. I want Khmer English learners to be like them, have this courage and confidence. Peace out brudda and sissy.

[rachada]

I feel so  i rarely speak English since i finished high school hmm how bad i m. Sometimes i lose all my confident ooh it's difficult to say 

Now i don't think more ( the more i speak the more fluent i get ) even i use the wrong grammars or pronunciations. Mistakes will change you ( no mistakes no new things )

[Kimlong]

Well, its bad that i'm to say such things. But, these days, sitting in front of PC, online to read posts in this forum, i found so many similar problems about speaking. Why Cambodian people dont have the courage to do what they feel is rite to do? I mean, they learn English because of various interest, and when it comes to real situation, they lacks confident in facing such moments. I have many Korean friends who are English-beginner, but they were showing their heart speaking English with breavery, leaving all negative thought behind. I want Khmer English learners to be like them, have this courage and confidence. Peace out brudda and sissy.

Hey Denith, this time I do support you guy!! But you know why Cambodian English learners find this hard to have a speak, not like other nations? Significantly, it relates to the cultural behavoir or habits!!
What do you think?

[Kimlong]

Now i don't think more ( the more i speak the more fluent i get ) even i use the wrong grammars or pronunciations. Mistakes will change you ( no mistakes no new things )

Hey Chanda your proverb and commitment is great! I hope you will completely get over your trouble!!

Best wish!!
Kimlong

[denith]

Hey Denith, this time I do support you guy!! But you know why Cambodian English learners find this hard to have a speak, not like other nations? Significantly, it relates to the cultural behavoir or habits!!
What do you think?

I think you rites about this. But i would to add that, the teachers of those who are willing to study English, do not DO well to encourage them. But if i talk about this, its like i relate it to the field of education and its standard.

Most teachers come to teach and then go home after dismissal time reaches, its like done deal, no more talks.

[rachada]

Now i don't think more ( the more i speak the more fluent i get ) even i use the wrong grammars or pronunciations. Mistakes will change you ( no mistakes no new things )

Hey Chanda your proverb and commitment is great! I hope you will completely get over your trouble!!

Best wish!!
Kimlong

I hope so  but one thing m not Chanda. No N buddy 

[Keo Somala]

I'm glad that I have heard all these ideas from you all.  Yes, let's do what you should do from now on. It isn't easy but that doesn't mean it's hard to do if you remember "Impossible is the only word not found in my vocabulary."

 

[Chanroth]

    Hi Vilang.
My idea is also like everybody above. I think the good way that you should always do is to speak with your friend a lots in english, Something like Good Morning and dairy activity. It is a basis point to make you confident.
Speak-Speak-Speak

[dadavy]

hi all u guys
i am  a new comer. there's a problem which is similar to all u guys have mentioned above. while i was studying, i was the one who speak english very well even the foreigners said like that. i was not afraid of anything about speaking english but now i don have any chance to speak more cos i found job which in Khmer speaking company, no one can speak english. morever i don have any time to study. i think my english will be gone sooner or later if i don speak.
so can anybody give me suggestion and what i suppose to do to get my english back.

thanks all u guys who have read this text.

davy

[rachada]

What? No one can speak English? Are you serious? That can't be.... how long have you been working there? maybe they can speak a little or..... hmmm if you don't have time should keep self-study at home it can help you. Hey, you may not work on weekend right? so you can study that time. The only way is you should take time to study even it's hard for you i know study while having a job so tired but should not waste times and you don't want to lose your English too right???
Make schedule for your study and life girl!!!!