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« on: December 17, 2005, 12:47:06 AM » |
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Hello Paul and everyone My trouble is speaking. You know? Last year I studied law in Khmer but now on I've studied Law in English but i don't talk much with my foreign teacher becuase i'm shy and i'm afraid that i speak wrong words or grammar. So how can i be more confident than now? I always stress with my studying and sometimes i cried. Poor girl  |
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« Reply #1 on: December 17, 2005, 11:17:32 PM » |
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Hi Active_girl,
Everyone has their weakness and strengthness. It is so important to be awared of them and try to straighten them out. Yours are SHYNESS and FEAR. Well, you are not alone, there are millions people out there have got this desease. We are afraid of first things. The difference is some knows how to conquer and some dont.
The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out and do it. And remember it will never go away as long as you continue to grow. Active_girl, please stop feeding yourself negative thought. There really is nothing to lose, only something to gain, so why not try? You are the one who controls everything you do. So stop thinking about what others might say or think about you cos they are not there when some terrible things happen to you.
You are YOUR ONLY BESTFRIEND. So you choose either a Shy girl who is always afraid to learn or A very intelligent girl who knows how to treat herself very well and end up getting anything she truly wants? My dear, you are not a failure if you dont make it, but you are a success cos you try.
The trick in Life is not to worry about making a wrong descision (or wrong grammar while speaking): It is learning how to correct. So COMMIT, commit yourself to pushing through the fear and shyness, then becoming more than you are at the present moment.
I believe you eventually find out who you really are...
Very concerned and cares for,
LISA
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isa Hoy
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Keo Somala
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« Reply #2 on: December 18, 2005, 06:52:04 PM » |
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Hello Active Girl and Lisa, How wonderful, Lisa! Your ideas are great. "No pains, no gains."  Be happy and we will fight whatever fight to fight.  It is great to have us all here to discuss the problems we have and exchange our experiece. Lisa, have a nice day. Active Girl, have fun. |
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jupiter
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« Reply #3 on: December 18, 2005, 08:21:10 PM » |
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Hi Active_girl, Great that u speak ur mind in here, i hope u won't be diffident anymore after reading Lisa's great notion. Take it easy with ur study :evil: don't allow stress to overcome u ! hope this will hearten u to be confident  Hi Lisa, Great to read ur wonderful ideas, u not only help Active_girl but u do help me as well. Hope this will help others too. Last Hi to Keosomala, Great to learn new saying " No pains, No gains" Be strong to fight against Shyness and Weakness. Hope everybody hates Weakness yet loves strengthnes. Your Idea is ur Power ! jupiter |
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A woman is like a cup of tea. You'll never know how strong she is until she boils.
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« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2006, 09:11:58 PM » |
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Hi active girl and all!
m also another one who came across this trouble.
u know at first m really shy and fearful to speak aloud to other persons. But as i ask the experienced persons who speak well, they have told me some ways to eliminate our fearfulness and shyness, they are:
learn to speak to yourself quietly or infront of the mirror, and esp. try to speak with your closely friends or your brothers or sisters.
step by step your trouble will be over without letting you know!
Love,
Kimlong
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I regret not knowing earlier what I know now!!!
Regret for yesterday and fear for tomorrow are the tragedies of life!!
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thypuc
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« Reply #5 on: June 04, 2007, 01:02:03 AM » |
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I can help you with your last 120 days post.
With regards,
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« Reply #6 on: June 04, 2007, 06:49:16 PM » |
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 Hi active girl and everybody! wow how great you are? eh it is very good idea from Keosomala "No pains, No gains." yeah sure i agree with her. heh keep going Active Girl, I bet you can do that na. everybody in here have very good tips of studying English na. do not feel hopeless, try your best then everything is easy for you na. eh do not forget, you need to have more confident for yourself na. Best wish Sam
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« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2007, 10:34:25 PM » |
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I think you are really willing to change, just look at your screen name "Active_girl", and you say you're shy?
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denith
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« Reply #8 on: June 07, 2007, 03:46:41 AM » |
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Hello Paul and everyone My trouble is speaking. You know? Last year I studied law in Khmer but now on I've studied Law in English but i don't talk much with my foreign teacher becuase i'm shy and i'm afraid that i speak wrong words or grammar. So how can i be more confident than now? I always stress with my studying and sometimes i cried. Poor girl So you are just shy. You know, i watch Singaporean movies, and they say the way to kill shyness is sexiness. |
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In this new age, DAMN! There are hotties on the street, why the heck am I sitting in front of my PC looking at concrete pictures, WHY NOT GET REAL GIRLS?
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