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[Keo Somala]

Hello everybody,

This section is for ideas. And now I'd like to talk about one social issue that has occurred elsewhere or worldwide.  Do you approve of homosexuality and bi-sexuality? The fact in society in each country is there are people who are interested in the same sex,for example, gays and lesbians. Do you have any ideas about this? Do you agree or disagree with their sexual orientation? 

Hope you'll talk about this here. 

[Suy Prasoeur]

Hi sis,

What a topic!
Well, actaully, the bi-sexaulity has been increasing more and more in every country from all over the world. I think this might be caused by the surounding envirement since there are so many bi-sexaulity relating braodcastings. There are now few couples who are the same sex got married (legally, maybe). This is an encouragment for those other gays and lesbians to go on their marraiges.

To be continued ...
Matt

[denith]

I hate gays and lesbian things. They are unnatural and in the world, there should be no place for these kinds of people. They should be entirely eliminated, why:

1. Gay or Lesbian can not give birth
2. Even they can give birth, but they will lacks either these two things: Motherhood or Fatherhood
3. Children to whom they (gay and LEsbian) adopted, will become like them

Those 3 things is enough to claim their worthlessness presence to the world.

[Keo Somala]

Thanks, Prasoeur and Denith, for contributing your ideas to this sensitive topic.

Well, really we have different ideas about homosexuality and bi-sexuality. Some people can't stand all these kinds of people because we believe in originalities. That's because thousands of years way back, men hunted and women made babies and looked after them. So this sort of revolutionary situation has caused shock and disappointment among a lot of people.

When some of us look at homosexual or bi-sexual people, we find them disgusting. But let's have a clear look at a fact. According to some scientific study about this, gays and lesbians are believed to grow psychologically and genetically this way. For example, in a fatherless family, a daughter grows to be strong, living with a mother. Psychogically, she grows up to be strong and she may find it very warm and comfortable to be with a person of the same sex. This can happen for sure.

Of course, these two sexual orientations can be caused by the surroundings. We may have heard that people have differrent sexual preferences and we can't force them to be what they don't want to be.

Though gays and lesbians cannot give birth to children, now it doesn't matter at all. Why? They are increasingly realizing their social roles. Many of them now are adopting children and also having children themselves. I remember a case in the US. Two women married and one of them decided to have a baby. She was made pregnant by a scientific way, receiving a male sperm and growing a baby inside of herself. Well, I mean, they are getting aware of the world problem too.

To be continued..hehehe... 

[denith]

Thanks, Prasoeur and Denith, for contributing your ideas to this sensitive topic.

Well, really we have different ideas about homosexuality and bi-sexuality. Some people can't stand all these kinds of people because we believe in originalities. That's because thousands of years way back, men hunted and women made babies and looked after them. So this sort of revolutionary situation has caused shock and disappointment among a lot of people.

When some of us look at homosexual or bi-sexual people, we find them disgusting. But let's have a clear look at a fact. According to some scientific study about this, gays and lesbians are believed to grow psychologically and genetically this way. For example, in a fatherless family, a daughter grows to be strong, living with a mother. Psychogically, she grows up to be strong and she may find it very warm and comfortable to be with a person of the same sex. This can happen for sure.

Of course, these two sexual orientations can be caused by the surroundings. We may have heard that people have differrent sexual preferences and we can't force them to be what they don't want to be.

Though gays and lesbians cannot give birth to children, now it doesn't matter at all. Why? They are increasingly realizing their social roles. Many of them now are adopting children and also having children themselves. I remember a case in the US. Two women married and one of them decided to have a baby. She was made pregnant by a scientific way, receiving a male sperm and growing a baby inside of herself. Well, I mean, they are getting aware of the world problem too.

To be continued..hehehe... 

Eventhought, we can not let it spread, if i'm the leader of the world, i will detain all the gays and lesbians so that this won't spread and pass law against homosexuality.

[rachada]

hmmm... your idea is too much.. Denith. What will you do if you are gay? Better kill yourself ? or you try to become a really man? I think that can't be because it's your natural.Even you try it, you still wear women clothes one day.....

[Tdol]

I hate gays and lesbian things. They are unnatural and in the world, there should be no place for these kinds of people. They should be entirely eliminated, why:

Let's see who has eliminated gay people before: Stalin, Hitler, etc.  Charming intellectual company you keep.

1. Gay or Lesbian can not give birth

Only women can give birth and lesbians have the same physical capacity to give birth that heterosexual women have.  Many do, through IVF (in vitro fertilization, or test tube babies) and other artificial methods, or by having sexual relations with a man for the purpose of conception.

2. Even they can give birth, but they will lacks either these two things: Motherhood or Fatherhood

This contradicts your first claim, and you admit that the first is wrong.  However, the second point you introduce is equally false.  If a woman gives birth, she is a mother, so your claim is false.  A lesbian can love a child just as much as a heterosexual woman; motherhood involves many things, not a simplistic view of sexuality.

3. Children to whom they (gay and LEsbian) adopted, will become like them

The scientific studies that have been done on this issue have not confirmed this claim.  There are many studies, mostly in the USA, that show that there is no greater tendency of gay parents to produce gay children.  Also, this can be seen to be incorrect by the simple fact that most gays come from heterosexual families.

Those 3 things is enough to claim their worthlessness presence to the world.

Given that all three are false, they are unlikely to convince anyone other than yourself of this.  By the way, I am not gay. ;-)

[50k]

Excellent post! i like to read it. I'll come back for more.

[Kimlong]

That's terribly great to hear such excellent topic and terific ideas from all of you guys!

Although every person has their own idea or vision, I still not really satisfy with what Denith's ideas, indeed!

You know Denith, how many years do the Black American people got freedom or be treated equal to the White one? Hundrends of years!!!You know how many people died during that racism era? Millions of people!!!

Gay is another descrimination matter in this 21th century. If all of us treated gay as monster, could you imagine what would happen? imagin if you were gay, how do you feel?

Like Rachanda said, you'd better kill youself? I think no, because even insect want to live why you were just gay, you kill youself!


I write here not to blame you at all, but what I suggest is that we should open our heart, our mind to accept what have happened to the surounder or to ourself. It is better if we pity them, who are gays, than hate them!

Not blame the gays, but nature!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kimlong

PS:According to Buddha words, although we can't help anyone, we are able to get good credit, just release our pity to him/her!!!!!!!!

[Suy Prasoeur]

Hi Mala Prasoeur Denith Rachada Tdol 50k and Long,

Gays and Lesbians are all natural creations from god. They have exactly the same abilities and physical appearances to those men and women, but they just have opposite interests in sexaulity. I think most of them appear to be gay or lesbian since young, but a few others just become bisexaul because of the surounding stuffs. The homosexaul or the bi-sexaul can adopt children or scientifically use the genetic engineering methods in order to produce a child of their own. Personally, i think it's just really better to adopt children from the orphanage because at least they can do a good job as adoptive parents who can give enough comfort to the orphans. Anyway, this may be a good way to cut down the number of the world populations. These are the beauty of homo and bi-sexaulity.

Just a random thought!
Matt

[Keo Somala]

Eventhought, we can not let it spread, if i'm the leader of the world, i will detain all the gays and lesbians so that this won't spread and pass law against homosexuality.

Denith, I understand your feelings about this because a lot of people think that way too. A few countries in the middle east still practice killing gays or lesbians if they know there is one somewhere. It's natural feelings that create your choice of sexual orientation.

Children to whom they (gay and Lesbian) adopted, will become like them

There is an interesting study done in the USA about children adopted by gays and lesbians. I'm sure you are going to be surprised. Those children can do very well in school and can be more sociable because they can adapt to any situation.  And they can be as normal as you are and they will be straight or not...no problem. 

[chesda]

Hi there,

That's an interesting topic!

I have very tiny idea about this issue too. Gays or lesbians are all people like us. So they should have the same rights like us too. However, in Cambodia Law; it does not allow the same sex to get married legally as husband and wife. The ideas that stand behind this reason, may be some of you might know. Can you give your opinions?

P.

[Keo Somala]

I have very tiny idea about this issue too. Gays or lesbians are all people like us. So they should have the same rights like us too. However, in Cambodia Law; it does not allow the same sex to get married legally as husband and wife. The ideas that stand behind this reason, may be some of you might know. Can you give your opinions?

Of course, the Cambodian law doesn't allow the same sex to get married legally. I have seen a few same-sex couples, though, and they can live together in spite of the disagreement from their family and society because this is a fact, not a pretending reality. Well, what I want to say definitely is there should be a revolutionary idea that the government don't mind or feel threatened by. In some parts of the world, the same-sex marriage is agreed and supported openly. I hope everybody knows Dalai Lama, who says that the world now should pay more attention to this social issue and these people should be socially accepted and agreed to get married.  I believe he understands that this social issue can't never be prevented from the history and the present society. We ought to be conscious of this fact as we are living in reality.

Now, we need to distinguish some facts....You have seen lady boys on TV, men who went through plastic surgery to become female. It is an artificial surgery to transform the male body to the female one and sometimes vice versa. These people decide to do this because they want to. According to the research made about them, they (lady boys) can't live longer than 40 years old. This is because they have used too much of female hormones. This is a sad fact. But there are some gays or lesbians who decide to do that kind of stuff but they are in love with the same sex.   

Just some thoughts

[-Loren-]

That's just the way of doing the brand storming. Don't get it too deep in your heart as some of you guys argue too much. I felt you should stay cool with any topics.

[Keo Somala]

That's just the way of doing the brand storming. Don't get it too deep in your heart as some of you guys argue too much. I felt you should stay cool with any topics.

  Hi Loren, that's cool of you to suggest this.  Thank you.